dispatching / receiving logic complete. following wip.

app/controllers/aspect_memberships_controller.rb

app/controllers/contacts_controller.rb

app/controllers/post_visibilities_controller.rb

app/helpers/aspects_helper.rb

app/models/contact.rb

app/models/request.rb

app/models/retraction.rb

app/views/contacts/_share_with_list.html.haml

app/views/people/_profile_sidebar.html.haml

app/views/people/show.html.haml

config/routes.rb

...grate/20110405171412_contact_remove_pending_add_mutual.rb

db/migrate/20110406202932_drop_requests_table.rb

db/schema.rb

features/connects_users.feature

lib/diaspora/user/connecting.rb

lib/postzord/receiver.rb

spec/controllers/contacts_controller_spec.rb

spec/controllers/home_controller_spec.rb

spec/controllers/post_visibilities_controller_spec.rb