MS a couple of small bug fixes when updateing user profile....starting to attept friend index/search page

MS fixed the websocket bug pushing out all updates to single clients.  we should get selenium so we can actually test it :(

DG IZ; friend requests pass through the webhook, need to refactor the parser because now the XML does not make sense, no big deal. P.S. WTF is send_to_seed in message_handler