restore hashes for person for person#index.  since request relations are one way, the building the hash is perhaps simpler than alternitives"

updated rails, and incorrect respond_to :location calls.  you must supply an object with respond_with

Correct some queries, look at incoming requests in search,  explicit pending false in activate_contact

This reverts commit 166202d0.

This reverts commit 8264c58e.

This reverts commit 30698d67.