instantiate StreamElement widget after a post has been added to the stream by a user. time to clean publisher.js up. gross.

Also, for some reason, had to move the include of NotifierHelper to the view itself. That requires more investigation.

Conflicts:
	spec/javascripts/stream-spec.js

Haven't figured out why reset password email body is blank, but I pulled it into a controller test so we can figure it out there instead of in a cucumber feature.

Show ajax spinner when hiding or unhiding a post in stream.

Conflicts:
	app/views/status_messages/bookmarklet.html.haml
	config/assets.yml
	db/schema.rb
	public/javascripts/contact-edit.js
	public/javascripts/publisher.js
	public/javascripts/view.js

These assertions were always returning true even if you dont populate
the flash, because nil.should_not be_empty returns true

really basic preventivie mesures for facebook friending.  we need to GO ALL THE WAY and proxy facebook users to be in many aspects